When you leave home pretending that you don't miss home won't help it is better to deal with these feelings and accept that they are a part of traveling. If you try to pretend you are not homesick it will not make you feel any better. Homesickness is a powerful thing that sneaks up on you before you know it especially if you just left home for the first time. When you experience homesickness, families are as close as a phone call or take out some photos and let yourself reminisce. If your town has a web site then visit it and read the paper or just keep up with the gossip that is circulating at the time. If that doesn't work sit down and have a good cry, it does wonders for homesickness.

When you are away from home you may find that there are times that are harder than others especially if you are away during the holiday times, missing weddings, birthdays, or any other special holiday but you have to prepare yourself for these times by doing something special on that day. At times like this the internet and the web cam can do wonders to lift your spirits. You can be there with them, not physically but it's as close as you can get to being there. You can still get joy out of these occasions.

Don't let homesickness take over your life after all you are away from home for a reason so try and make the place you moved as much of a home as possible.

Eventually you will have your own life and things will get a lot easier. Try to see the good things about where you are living and make your own traditions in your home. Find places that you like to go to and keep going until you are familiar with them such as coffee shops, malls, restaurants and anything else you enjoy doing. Before long your new home will truly be your home. Have a little of home brought with you for the times that you find it the hardest. This could be an ornament, something familiar from your bedroom or even a favorite blanket.

Leaving home is a part of life for all of us and we all experience homesickness but as you grow old you will be glad that you stuck it out and saw some of the world. When your 80 your memories of different places will make it so worthwhile.

Initial Thoughts: I was rather excited to see the brand-new Roladin cafe while searching for a place to grab a sandwich and/or salad for lunch. Not for any special reason, however, other than my desire to not only eat Kosher, but eat at places that have a certification from the Rabbis.

What I Bought: A small green salad that came with dressing. The dressing destroyed the simple salad that consisted of cherry tomatoes and iceberg lettuce. I also picked up a salmon sandwich, choosing it over the Bulgarian cheese sandwich only because that one contained mushrooms (icky). It is utterly fishy and lacking on any real taste besides the salmon. Maybe with the right seasonings it could have worked. To finish it off I bought a Kinley Soda Water.

Final Thoughts: Perhaps I should've bought a cake or some sort of pastries. This bakery should stick just to that and avoid anything else, besides coffee (which I didn't try yet). The service was rather efficient, although nothing particularly spectacular. The atmosphere inside is nice, but the food was a major let-down.

Arcaffe - ארקפה

Initial Thoughts: I've always been rather intimidated when considering going into any Arcaffe. It gives off an "upper-class gal"s dress down spot,' which really means it's stuck up and you expect to see a gold-digger housewife (who does no housework) sitting with her girlfriends sipping bottles of Voss water and picking at a frisee salad. I didn't allow myself to go in until I knew I was looking 100% and had my new, shiny credit card on me.

What I Bought: A mozzarella/pesto/basil/tomato sandwich (carbs!), which was rather good because they toasted it. I had to grab their small cup of chocolate mousse (more carbs!) that I saw sitting in the case with the sandwiches. It was alright, rather rich. I was going to buy mineral water, but I saw the free filtered water tank and decided to go with that, instead.

Final Thoughts: It is a nice place for a business lunch, blind date (I did meet one up there), and yes, even for some stuck-up gals to get together and drink iced tea. The set-up is a non-chalant sort of luxury, and you feel odd if you go in just to take something to go, so sit! Expect the servers to be stuck-up, though, and the only real help you'll find is with the busboys (who are usually foreigners). The sandwiches and coffee are good, but I'd stay away from the sweets and their salads.

Aroma - ארומה

Initial Thoughts: Cool, a coffee shop. Thought of it as the main and one of the only Israeli coffee shops when I first came here. They're spread out all over and seem to be acceptable for all income levels to be seen at.

What I Bought: I usually pick up the chicken salad (comes in 3 sizes) with 1000 Island lite dressing. It's good, nothing amazing, but very edible and a good default choice if I'm not in a risky mood. In the winter, I loved the warm roast beef sandwich and tomato soup, but never get the bean soup (it really looks disgusting and is bland). The iced coffee my friend likes from here, but I find it lacking enough flavor and don't like that it's sitting in one of those little machines (I'm a former Starbucks type of gal).

Final Thoughts: The food is good, but not gourmet. I usually prefer to take away what I order, but sitting down is also doable. The servers/cashiers at most Aromas can be rude, so it's important to be firm with them when ordering and ask to make sure they gave you all of your dressings and plasticware. I don't recommend buying coffee from here, however, just lunch.

Coffee Bean

Initial Thoughts: Awesome, American style coffee! (This is when I still thought American coffee was good...) Well, screw the hot coffee, I'm going for the Ice Blend because Starbucks made me an addict of Frappy-type drinks. Added benefit? They for sure have to speak English, since the owners are Americans from Los Angeles.

What I Bought: I've had nearly every flavor of the Ice Blend they have to offer here in Israel. Most are pretty good, what you like will depend solely upon your preferences, but you usually can't go wrong if you like fresh blended drinks. The food isn't so bad, though I don't prefer their salads, since there's always those terrible dried tomatoes. Mini sandwiches are a perfect choice with a drink. Get desserts (overpriced) only if you're going to split them with someone else, they are extremely rich (this is from the owner of the ultimate sweettooth).

Final Thoughts: If you go here, you will be tossed into one of two categories: American, or a wannabe American. Neither are good in my opinion, but I don't really care because I get my favorite drinks (most iced drinks in Israel taste terrible and are sitting in those rotating machines for the entire day, sometimes for days at a time, even). The sandwiches are a good bet, and the service is usually up to basic American standards.

It's a coffee shop with simple concepts but memorable experiences…

My heart was filled with joy looking at my latte-art coffee...I so want to get a job as a barista. It took me a while to drink it, because I do not want to destroy the froth. So next time I get my latte, I will request that they put in the sugar first. So after 15 minutes of staring at my latte, I decided to stir in the sugar and destroy the art, but the froth was still there. The combination of the coffee and the blueberry cheesecake brought tears to my eyes (yep, mababaw ang kaligayahan ko sa world). Literally, kasi mainit pa yung kape. Even though the blueberry cheesecake's consistency was like that of a bubblegum, it was okay. It was different from the usual bbcc that I buy. The sweetness and bitterness combined...plus the warm feeling it gives you inside...Coffee shops are enlightening...

But I do wish that I did not tell those figaro guys that I was making a review - because they were suspicious at me the whole time I was there. They kept looking at me, asking me questions ("Mam, naga manage ba kayo ng coffee shop?" What the F! Do I look like someone mature enough to manage a business? I can barely even manage my studies!!!). I do understand the fact that they can be protective of their own recipes and company secrets, but if I were a spy, I wouldn't be stupid enough to say I was taking pictures!

So they ruined my spiritual experience with coffee, but they did compensate for the headache by inviting me to join the figaro coffee club. I was excited for all the benefits joining the club does...All coffee shops should have their own coffee club, noh? And I'm going back there...and I'll just pretend the figaro guys don't exist...Coz I'm still planning to try their interesting coffee and sweet cakes...Plus, I'm buying one of their coffee beans - they have interesting packaging =>

Ciao for now!

Bonding at its finest…